Flirting is an art, but we’re here to show you some of the secret tells that give away the hints you’re looking to drop.Flirtation takes practice to master for most. Performing well in front of someone that interests you can be very unnerving. You have to have poise and timing to hit a home run. We take a look at some finer points to help you belt one out of the park so read on!
You can usually tell if someone is interested in you or show your interest in them by how you present yourself physically to them. People who like someone will pay close attention to them. This means no looking around the room or falling easily to distraction. Someone you’re interested in or who is interested in you will have a healthy dose of focus on what it is they’re after. This means facing a person directly, leaning in towards them and keeping eye contact – but not the scary kind that creeps people out. Another sign of interest is when people fidget – perhaps touching their neck or lips. Women have a tendency to play with their hair. These are the subtle secret signs of flirting that help give away the interests of others.
“You can say as much by talking about a cup of coffee as you can by commenting on the great body they have.”
You can also flirt it up through conversation. Stating your interest outright isn’t flirting. Flirting has more poise. It’s more polished. It’s not about those cheesy pick-up lines in a book. It’s conveyed more by the way you say things than by what you say, although both are important. Risqué topics aren’t the greatest for conversations when it comes to showing interest. You can say as much by talking about a cup of coffee as you can by commenting on the great body they have. Pick your topics of conversation carefully and you’ll have more luck impressing the object of your desires.
At some point, flirting must end and action must be taken. Hopefully you’re keeping your eyes peeled for these signs coming back in your direction. If they are, then you’re ready for the pitch. When it comes, slap it good and hard and we’ll be in the stands to cheer you on!